The loss of my partners left me paralyzed. I couldn’t even make the simplest of decisions. I didn’t know it then, but I was in a deep depression. After taking time off with my family, and re-evaluating my priorities, I wrote a book born of the conversations I’d had with my partner Les. With a tremendous amount of work and support, Killing Sacred Cows became a New York Times bestseller. That book’s lessons have even more value for those that read it now.