You can hire someone to do the work and still be the reason it never gets done. I’ve been that person. If you want to delegate and scale like millionaires, start by looking at what you’re handing over:
Is it a clear responsibility, or a problem you’re hoping someone else will make disappear?
When I worked on Killing Sacred Cows, I hired a ghostwriter because I was afraid to write. I worried about grammar. Years later, recording the audiobook made the cost obvious: I was stumbling through words that didn’t sound like me.
Good delegation gives someone room to succeed. It also asks you to face what belongs to you. Here’s how to tell a weakness from an insecurity, define a role, and stop making your team wait for your next instruction.
Are you delegating a weakness or hiding an insecurity?
I hadn’t written a book before. Speaking my ideas felt easier than typing them, so I let someone else do much of the writing. Collaboration wasn’t the problem. I was using it to avoid developing a skill I wanted.
My co-author, Stephen, had read a lot of classic books. Together, we made the first version longer than it had to be. We kept building a case, trying to make it impossible for anyone to disagree. By my estimate, about 30% could go. In the later version, I cut that material and put more attention on the reader.
A weakness may be something you can do but have no desire to keep doing. Someone else enjoys it and does it well. An insecurity is fear keeping you from work you want to do: writing, speaking, selling an idea, or looking at your numbers.
Ask yourself:
If I knew I could get better at this, would I want to?
If the answer is yes, a coach, practice, or a collaborator may serve you better than handing the whole thing away. If it’s no, you can find someone whose strengths fit the work.
You don’t have to become the best at every job. You do want enough understanding to choose help wisely and give useful feedback. That applies to your business, your household, and how you delegate your finances.
Delegate and scale like millionaires: define the result
I call it relegation when you hand something off and hope for the best. Hope is not a good financial strategy. It isn’t much of a management strategy, either.
Delegation takes more time at the beginning than doing the task yourself. You explain the result you’re after, what a good result looks like, and what support is available. I call those the conditions of satisfaction.
Without that conversation, your teammate guesses. When the result disappoints you, it’s tempting to say, “I knew I should have done it myself.” But did you prepare them to succeed?
Start with one responsibility and write down:
- The result this person owns.
- How you’ll both recognize that the work is done well.
- The decisions they can make and the limits they work within.
- When you’ll check in and which problems call for your help.
Then ask them to explain it back in their own words. That’s a chance to find the gaps before either of you spends a week working from different assumptions.
You can support the result without dictating every move. Someone you’ve hired for their judgment deserves room to use it. Otherwise, you’ve added a person to your payroll while keeping every decision on your own plate.
Give Amy a role, not another dictation
I had an assistant named Amy. After a client meeting, I’d hand her my dictation and tell her what to do. After the next meeting, I’d do it again.
If I hadn’t held a meeting or supplied the dictation, she didn’t know what came next. I’d created a job that depended on me feeding it tasks.
Compare that with a role: you’re responsible for client success. Now we can talk about what the client is trying to accomplish and what follow-through makes that possible. The team can act toward an understood result instead of waiting for me to invent the next task.
Here’s an illustrative version of that shift. Say you ask someone to send a follow-up email after a meeting. That’s a task. A role might be making sure every client leaves with clear next steps, knows who owns them, and gets help when something stalls.
For that role, you might agree that next steps go out by the next business day, open items are reviewed each week, and any commitment outside the team’s authority comes back to you. Choose standards that fit the work and the commitments you have made to your clients. The point is to make success visible.
In our business, we support our Results Facilitators with systems, education, and weekly meetings. I don’t read every note from every meeting. We work on clarity about the outcomes and on having the right person in the role.
The test is simple: if you go quiet for a day, does your teammate still know what matters? If the answer is no, clarify the role before asking them to show more initiative.
Trust doesn’t mean disappearing
I’ve made mistakes by avoiding hard conversations. I wanted everyone to like me. I told myself I wasn’t good at operations, then allowed behavior that hurt the business because I didn’t want to address it.
That’s a different problem from having a teammate who’s better at operations. You can welcome their skill and still speak up when something isn’t working.
The same distinction matters with money. You can hire an accountant, work with a strategist, and get expert help evaluating investments. You still decide what you want your money to accomplish. If you haven’t told anyone, they have to fill in the blanks.
That’s why I come back to Investor DNA: your values, knowledge, and experience belong in your financial decisions. Handing off paperwork doesn’t hand off your priorities.
At a check-in, bring a real question: What happened? What got in the way? What decision is waiting on me? Listen before rewriting the process. A missed result may expose unclear expectations, a training gap, a poor fit, or something you failed to provide.
Accountability works better when both of you have a part in it. Your team owns its work. You own the quality of the handoff and the conversations you’ve been avoiding.
Invest in people who might outgrow you
“What if I train them and they leave?” I hear that concern. I’ve had people leave and try their own businesses. That possibility doesn’t make withholding support a good plan.
If I don’t invest in someone, I’m helping create the very outcome I’m afraid of. They’ll have less room to grow here, and we’ll have less chance of doing great work together.
I’ve also had the opposite experience. In the conversation behind this article, I talked about our COO, Bobby, bringing new ideas and about some of our firm’s best ideas coming from the team. That’s a good sign. If every idea has to come from me, I’m the bottleneck.
You don’t have to start with a large team to delegate and scale like millionaires. Pick one recurring responsibility. Work out its conditions of satisfaction with the person taking it on. Make time to teach it and review the first result together.
Then choose what you’ll do with the time you get back. More valuable work is one option. So is dinner with your family. Wealth includes more than the financial dimension.
I didn’t become a better writer by avoiding writing. And I didn’t build a better team by making myself the source of every answer. What could someone own fully if you gave them the clarity and support to do it?
In prosperity,
Garrett
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between delegation and relegation?
Delegation means agreeing on the result, the conditions of satisfaction, and the support available. Relegation means handing work away and hoping it works out without that preparation.
How do I delegate a role instead of a task?
Give someone an ongoing outcome to own, such as keeping clients clear on their next steps. Agree on decision limits and check-ins so they can act without waiting for each new instruction.
How can I tell a weakness from an insecurity?
Ask whether you would want to develop the skill if fear were out of the way. A weakness may be work you have no desire to keep doing. An insecurity can keep you from work you want to do but are afraid to try.
Does delegation mean I stop checking the work?
No. Agree on how you will review results and address problems. You can hold someone accountable for an outcome without directing every step they take.


